Sindhi Kadhi (Vegetables in Gram Flour Gravy)

Ingredients

1/2 cup gram flour (besan)
3 tablespoons oil
1/2 teaspoon fenugreek seeds (mathi)
1/2 teaspoon cumin seeds (jeera)
1/8 teaspoon asafetida (hing)
3 whole red peppers
Approx. 10 curry leaves
1/2 teaspoon turmeric (haldi)
1/2 teaspoon red chili powder adjust to taste
1 tablespoon grated ginger
Approx. 3 tablespoons tamarind pulp (imli)
1-1/2 teaspoon salt
2 cups of mixed vegetables (I am using 8 okras slit into 2 vertically, 1/4 cup carrots sliced in rounds, 1 small potato cubed, 1/4 cup cut green beans about 1 inch longs)
Also need 1 tablespoon oil for stir-fry okra
5 cups of water